BETTER PERSONALITY WITH EFECTIVE COMMUNICATION AND PROGRESSIVE MINDSET
1. How problem solving helps individual in personality development and growth?
Our personality can never match with others, because everyone's culture and family environment and promotions are never the same. These characteristics give us a different identity (unik) from others.
Your way of speaking should be decent; Never falter while speaking, speak patiently and keep smiling on your face; Talk with your eyes with confidence. The brightness of the eyes should always remain, the lofty man too. Let's go with decency and confidence. While walking, your face is full of confidence and straight, always walk in front or down; Excessive soldering - do not go looking; This will enhance your personality. Do not look at someone while walking, nor make any comments; This will adversely affect your personality. Laugh softly, do not let your personality get depleted by loud or loud; One should always laugh only after seeing the atmosphere and situation. Whenever you meet someone for the first time, speak less, speak slowly and politely, keep a distance, ask what you ask with love, answer what is asked in front of you; This will make people eager to meet you, respect you. A positive smile should always remain on the face throughout the conversation. Always the front should feel special.
If you have to show resentment, show it in silence, if the person in front knows to respect you; So he will understand everything - with your silence. See the front and react. Never be immediately available, so that they feel you depend on their grace; It is in your hands to maintain your self-esteem and self-pride. Respect others. Give importance to the words of others. Keep your way of thinking positive. Keep your gestures positive and courteous. Your dress should be attractive and elegant; Choose clothes which suitable for work and situation.
When our thinking is negative then the probability of failure increases, we start doubting our abilities, our confidence also starts to decrease. Therefore, for the success of work, negative thoughts have to be controlled. We can change our attitude and change our life, we can be successful. To do your best, you have to turn negative thinking into positive, you have to be confident - on yourself and on your ability.
POSITIVE ATTTITUDE |
Following are some things, if we keep in mind, we can achieve all successes and happiness in life by bringing changes in our personality, positive attitude: -
1. You should respect the right things of the younger ones and accept the advice of the elders. Do not get angry and quarrel over small things and consider the reasons. Treat people the same way you want for yourself from others, only then you can get respect. Be polite, bring a glow of confidence and smile on your face, introduce civilization in conversation. Do not display ego (EGO) too much.
2. You should make an effort to be special to others. Do not look at others, bring positive changes in yourself. Your way of life, mode of conversation, your personality should be different from others. If someone is giving you respect and respect, then you too become theirs and honor them wholeheartedly. Do not humiliate and ignore them. You can win their hearts with your good behavior and faith.
3. Do not do any work in a hurry. Work only after understanding the success of the work and their good and evil. The success of every task demands time and dedication, so be patient and patient, till the success of the work.
4. Be honest but do not let it be used. Love but do not hurt yourself, believe but do not be naive. Do not lose your voice to listen to others.
5. Never fall prey to anyone's tricks.
6. Never give suggestions without asking anyone. If someone does not show interest in talking to you, then leave it. Realize your importance.
7. Trust yourself and your ability; Never be dependent on others. Keep positive thinking and be confident in yourself. Don't make anyone special nor be someone special. Keep as few special friends as possible.
8. Stay away from habitual conflicts and conflicts; With this your time will be disputed and your attention will deviate from positive actions and disturbance will be born in the mind. Remove the solution from the conversation, not from the vehicle.
9. Make yourself mentally powerful. Keep positive thinking about life and success. Stop calling yourself successful; Your success should be seen by your work and your enthusiasm; not that you have to tell. Only, you need to make yourself worthy, the world will follow you. You do not have to stop on your path of progress, you have to move forward.
10. You do not have to pay attention to your past, focus on the present, think about the goals of your successes, do not be discouraged by thinking about the unwanted problems that will come. If there are problems then you will also resolve with confidence; Don't get frustrated and change your goals.
11. Do not burn on the successes of others, congratulate them on their successes, if possible, help them as well. By doing this they will also become yours, also helpful in your success.
12. Never blame anyone else for your failures. Never compare yourself to others, what you have to do is to do it on the strength of your confidence and dedication and hard work. Seek your happiness and success in yourself and not in others.
13. Don't waste time. Focus on work, be punctual. Never be too enthusiastic, go ahead with positive thinking. Have complete confidence in yourself.
14. Learn from failures with positive thoughts. Do not copy the crowds, do the mind.
15. Always speak less and listen more to others, this will give you a lot to learn and your good personality will affect others.
16. Focus on the development of your personality. Your manner of speech, physical expressions should be polite and full of confidence and enthusiasm. Speak with your eyes in conversation, your facial expressions should be cheerful and attractive. Speak with emotions.
3. Communication Skill
Communication |
The importance of all our relationships also depends a lot on our behavior and colloquial methods and practices. A single word is a precious thing that can strengthen a relationship, and in a moment can ruin a relationship. A word that comes out of our mouth can make or break a relationship in a moment. This is the art by which we can become a well-successful businessman, speaker, administrator. Each word that comes out of our mouth is very important. In the conversation, we must speak confidently, respond and seek answers.
If we are sociable and know how to speak well, then everyone will be impressed by us and our colleagues too. We can make anyone a friend or even an enemy by our speech and behavior. A good administrator or businessman is the one who is a good speaker and is successful in speaking to the next person and understanding the situation and can expose his hidden problems and doubts from the front.
Voice is the words that express love or hate; Just the way of speaking will be different, results will be obtained accordingly.
Remove this fear that we do not know how to speak effectively, if we have never spoken on a particular topic in a group, how will we be able to speak; What will people say about our shortcomings; These are all those fears which try to keep us away from speaking in an effective way and reduce our confidence. No one has all the characteristics or abilities since childhood, only by our efforts in positive direction can we overcome our hesitation and shortcomings. For this, we have to believe in ourselves and our abilities and make efforts with confidence and we have to increase knowledge related to the subject only then we can become good speakers. Fear of some stage is not bad, it will serve to inspire us to learn; But by accepting this fear, we have to plan with confidence and make it successful. Whenever you speak, speak confidently with a smile on your face. There should be power in your speech and you should speak each word clearly and thoughtfully. It is necessary to have sweetness and reflex in speech. Whatever you talk, see the time and the peace so that people will feel honored for you by your words; Not that they feel angry or sad.
Hearing your conversation, those in front of you should be interested in you and not feel bored after listening to you. Whatever you say, speak with ease and a loving smile; If possible, include the person in front of you. Also keep asking him your feedback or suggestions and questions, so that he feels that you are interested in him. Do not be afraid to say anything. Whatever you say, speak with confidence. While talking, talk with eyes contact in them, this will increase your confidence and the next person will like to talk to you. While speaking, the physical gestures should be attractive and confident, the dress should be matching with the environment and situations and the subject. While talking, your hand gestures and rhythms should reveal depth in your words. Talk to the front and understand. If someone does not agree with you, do not get entangled with it, nor argue with it; Give others a chance to speak as well.
Whatever you say, focus on the subject itself, distracting the attention by speaking out of the subject will disturb the seriousness of the subject and we will not be able to leave our influence. While speaking, ask the person with sweetness and confidence, this will give you a chance to know him and by knowing his thinking and willpower, you will be able to put your words in an effective way. Try to make good sense from the front, show smile and sadness according to their mood. Give good feelings to others. Your feelings should be good and cooperative towards others. Do not reveal your pride in things in front of others. Those ahead will respect you and your words wholeheartedly. While speaking, do not let the reactions or thoughts of the people dominate you, keep a cool mind and respond with positive smile. Keep your confidence up.
These are the main things that can make our conversation effective.
Following are some more things from which you can improve the art of conversation (communication) more thoroughly. With this you can gain respect and charm in conversation: -1. Speak boldly and confidently. You should have a grasp on the subject and your voice should be attractive, sweet and powerful.
2. Your body language and attire should be attractive and positive. The gestures of your hands, eyes and body should be in harmony with the subject and environment of conversations .
3. Along with speaking you should also listen to the people in front. The likes of those in front should be considered as disliked. As far as possible, include the people in the front and learn to say in brief.
4. Get complete information about your subject and try to read the frontal mind well before speaking. You speak less, give the person in front a chance to speak more; With this you will be able to check his likes and dislikes and his thinking. Increase your vocabulary so that you can increase your influence by using effective words. Whatever you speak, choose the words and speak and keep the language decent. You have to speak politely and sweetly with confidence and you should have strength in speech. Avoid using any obscene and offensive words.
5. You should come to see situations and talk; cleverness in talking should also be used according to situations. If you want to say something harsh, it would be better to speak SORRY before speaking. Speak less and hear more of the hair in front; Then, if necessary, give your response with sweetness and keep your point. It is also good to keep quiet at times; Do not forget to give advice without asking. Avoid making negative comments while talking, never cheat anyone; They will increase your respect in the eyes of those in front of them and they will be willing to take interest in your talk. Positive smile in things, praising someone on their good work or their success will help you in increasing your respect. Do not fall in love with others and learn to agree with their words; Talk to people looking forward to their feelings and mood. If the next ones are talking, then keep giving them the expression of their consent by saying gestures or yes-yes etc. in a nutshell; This will reveal your affinity to those in front.
4. Mindset :
Leadership |
From leadership to love mentality determines our every aspect. We work as hard as we can. We should have full confidence in our abilities; The business must tailor the work to the condition; Only then possible success can be achieved. Belief has a lot of power, which has a great impact on our conscious and subconscious mind. Believe in yourself, nothing is impossible. If we, with positive thinking, persevere. - If we work hard with certainty, success will definitely be achieved at a certain time. We have to mold our personality, faith and perseverance according to the working condition.
There are two ways of thinking - one is Positive / Growth / Progressive Mindset and the other is Negative / Fixed Mindset.
In positive thinking, no action is impossible, if we have passion and faith - to do the hardest thing; And be obsessed - to fight hardships. Positive thinking people never trust fate; They believe that every task will be successful only when we work hard and can be made big by doing small tasks. They do not believe in innate intelligence. They believe that we can work on our strengths and Knowledge can be increased and all achievements can be achieved by learning. Character, intelligence and creative ability of Positive / Growth / Progressive Mindset grows according to work, as they do not panic and persevere. With hard work to achieve the task by earning knowledge with hard work and succeed. I am always ready to face every challenge with positive thinking. They consider failure as a new challenge with a new thinking. They open their doors of development and emphasize on new creation and efforts. They make positive efforts and positive thoughts with positive thinking and succeed. They believe that even though we have lesser qualities, Still we can achieve success through untiring effort and continuous learning These are the challenges, they face the problems with bravery and patience. Due to positive thinking, they do not read any effect of the criticisms; Never get upset seeing problems, they never get jealous of those who are with them, nor do they ever make any allegations against them. They give them success in the success of others and accept everyone's support in their success. Is that through hard work intelligence can be improved by development in personality. They mold themselves according to work. They know to be patient, hard work is their pre-determined goal; They never panic by learning.
Whereas Negative / Fixed Mindset believes in innate intelligence and is afraid of losing and criticized, causing such people to be afraid to take risks and try to hide their shortcomings; As a result, most face defeat. The character, intelligence and creative ability of the Negative / Fixed Mindset is fixed, as they are afraid of losing and learning to maintain their image and doing little or little work. Their ego (ego) and fear dominate them.
Therefore, if you want to be successful and enhance your personality, then think positively and live in a positive atmosphere, abandon the laziness. No success is impossible; If our intentions are firm and we make continuous efforts in the right direction, with the right information. Great effort will have to be made in doing big things, results will also get big. Quit making excuses.
Recognize your abilities and characteristics, have a victorious personality. Always think that no action is impossible; If we try continuously, we will surely get success. Keep creative ideas and find new ways - to make the work easier. Find the reason of failure and start taking positive measures and efforts.
Never depend on others, find your own way and keep your intentions . Stay away from negative thinking. Always meet positive thinking people and respect them. Never be afraid to take risks and try success with positive efforts. Remove Fear , face the fear with confidence. Stand out from the crowd, never copy anyone; Choose your path with creative thought. Don't make excuses and run away from your goal; Brave the problems bravely. Try your best before you give up and assess the situation; Surely some new way can be found.
To achieve the goal, you have to work hard with dedication and strong will. Keep an open mind.
Knowledge can be bought, just you should come to use it. Develop your imagination and have full confidence in yourself.
Do not waste time looking for luck and opportunities, start the work as quickly as possible. Make the plan practical and complete. Co-ordinate with colleagues.