Monday, May 25, 2020

communication skill AND ITS IMPORTENCY IN FIND CONFIDENCE BETWEEN OUR PROFESSION / SOCIETY

communication skill 


      Conversation means speaking or saying something. We use many mediums to say or reveal something; For example, by speaking, writing, or using any medium of communication, we can convey our words to anyone. 

The art of conversation has a great importance in achieving our success. In moving forward in any field, of business. Success also depends on the art of conversation (communication); If we are not able to impress our customer with our words, then we can never succeed in business.

      The importance of all our relationships also depends a lot on our behaviour and colloquial methods and practices. A single word is a precious thing that can strengthen a relationship, and in a moment can ruin a relationship. A word that comes out of our mouth can make or break a relationship in a moment. This is the art by which we can become a well-successful businessman, speaker, administrator. Each word that comes out of our mouth is very important. In the conversation, we must speak confidently, respond and seek answers.

If we are sociable and know how to speak well, then everyone will be impressed by us and our colleagues too. We can make anyone a friend or even an enemy by our speech and behaviour. A good administrator or businessman is the one who is a good speaker and is successful in speaking to the next person and understanding the situation and can expose his hidden problems and doubts from the front.




      Voice is the words that express love or hate; Just the way of speaking will be different, results will be obtained accordingly.

     Remove this fear that we do not know how to speak effectively, if we have never spoken on a particular topic in a group, how will we be able to speak; What will people say about our shortcomings; These are all those fears which try to keep us away from speaking in an effective way and reduce our confidence. No one has all the characteristics or abilities since childhood, only by our efforts in positive direction can we overcome our hesitation and shortcomings. For this, we have to believe in ourselves and our abilities and make efforts with confidence and we have to increase knowledge related to the subject only then we can become good speakers. Fear of some stage is not bad, it will serve to inspire us to learn; But by accepting this fear, we have to plan with confidence and make it successful. Whenever you speak, speak confidently with a smile on your face. There should be power in your speech and you should speak each word clearly and thoughtfully. It is necessary to have sweetness and reflex in speech. Whatever you talk, see the time and the peace so that people will feel honoured for you by your words; Not that they feel angry or sad.



     Hearing your conversation, those in front of you should be interested in you and not feel bored after listening to you. Whatever you say, speak with ease and a loving smile; If possible, include the person in front of you. Also keep asking him your feedback or suggestions and questions, so that he feels that you are interested in him. Do not be afraid to say anything. Whatever you say, speak with confidence. While talking, talk with eyes contact in them, this will increase your confidence and the next person will like to talk to you. While speaking, the physical gestures should be attractive and confident, the dress should be matching with the environment and situations and the subject. While talking, your hand gestures and rhythms should reveal depth in your words. Talk to the front and understand. If someone does not agree with you, do not get entangled with it, nor argue with it; Give others a chance to speak as well.

Whatever you say, focus on the subject itself, distracting the attention by speaking out of the subject will disturb the seriousness of the subject and we will not be able to leave our influence. While speaking, ask the person with sweetness and confidence, this will give you a chance to know him and by knowing his thinking and willpower, you will be able to put your words in an effective way. Try to make good sense from the front, show smile and sadness according to their mood. Give good feelings to others. Your feelings should be good and cooperative towards others. Do not reveal your pride in things in front of others. Those ahead will respect you and your words wholeheartedly. While speaking, do not let the reactions or thoughts of the people dominate you, keep a cool mind and respond with positive smile. Keep your confidence up.



These are the main things that can make our conversation effective :--


Following are some more things from which you can improve the art of conversation (communication) more thoroughly. With this you can gain respect and charm in conversation: -

1. Speak boldly and confidently. You should have a grasp on the subject and your voice should be attractive, sweet and powerful.

2. Your body language and attire should be attractive and positive. The gestures of your hands, eyes and body should be in harmony with the subject and environment of conversations .

3. Along with speaking you should also listen to the people in front. The likes of those in front should be considered as disliked. As far as possible, include the people in the front and learn to say in brief.

4. Get complete information about your subject and try to read the frontal mind well before speaking. You speak less, give the person in front a chance to speak more; With this you will be able to check his likes and dislikes and his thinking. Increase your vocabulary so that you can increase your influence by using effective words. Whatever you speak, choose the words and speak and keep the language decent. You have to speak politely and sweetly with confidence and you should have strength in speech. Avoid using any obscene and offensive words.

5. You should come to see situations and talk; cleverness in talking should also be used according to situations. If you want to say something harsh, it would be better to speak SORRY before speaking. Speak less and hear more of the hair in front; Then, if necessary, give your response with sweetness and keep your point. It is also good to keep quiet at times; Do not forget to give advice without asking. Avoid making negative comments while talking, never cheat anyone; They will increase your respect in the eyes of those in front of them and they will be willing to take interest in your talk. Positive smile in things, praising someone on their good work or their success will help you in increasing your respect. Do not fall in love with others and learn to agree with their words; Talk to people looking forward to their feelings and mood. If the next ones are talking, then keep giving them the expression of their consent by saying gestures or yes-yes etc. in a nutshell; This will reveal your affinity to those in front.




















वार्तालाप ( बातचीत ) की कला l communication skill l Conversation Skill

वार्तालाप ( बातचीत ) की कला ( communication skill ) :



       वार्तालाप का अर्थ होता है बोलना या किसी बात को कहना l किसी बात को कहने या प्रकट करने के लिए हम कई माध्यम प्रयोग करते हैं ; जैसे मुंह से बोलकर , लिखकर , या संचार के किसी भी माध्यम का प्रयोग करके हम अपनी बात किसी तक पहुंचा सकते हैं l वार्तालाप की कला का हमारी सफलता पाने में एक बहुत ही बड़ा महत्व है l किसी भी क्षेत्र में आगे बढ़ने में , व्यापार की सफलता भी वार्तालाप ( संचार ) की कला पर ही निर्भर करती है ; अगर हम अपनी बातों से हमारे ग्राहक को प्रभावित नहीं कर पाए तो हम कभी भी  व्यापार  में सफल नहीं हो सकते हैं l 

Friday, May 15, 2020

Mature personality.That give us a great value in society and profession .


 Maturity



      Maturity is a special term, which helps us to know the secret of a person's life. We can know the maturity of someone by his way of functioning and his behaviour. Age is not important in maturity, his thinking - The power to understand, the way he behaves and the behaviour, we will be able to know his maturity by gesture. Many children are mature; But many adults can also be seen doing childish behaviour.



Mature people are complete in all ways in themselves, they have a depth of life. A mature person has had a positive experience of life, they have an infinite power to think and understand. The environment around them and their good -Bury is well acquainted with all situations and he has to mould himself in these situations; It comes to adapt to situations. A mature person is confident and self-respecting and is rich in extraordinary talent in his work. Mature people are optimistic and have an open ideology, never let down; No matter how bad the situation is, many times try even in small failures and wait for a good time. They are not stubborn, understanding the working conditions, changes in the work with patience. Likes. Mature people are also honest and kind and never jealous of someone's success, on the contrary their successes are supported by helping them as far as possible. He helps to show gratitude to the colleague, he never boast of success and in this success he expresses gratitude and happiness to everyone equally.



     
  A mature person may look ordinary to us, but they are extraordinary and full of confidence. They are kind and do not like to attack others and make mistakes and mistakes on others. They gladly accept their mistakes and mistakes and try to overcome them, not to suppress the mistakes. Forgive others and help them Neither do they come good. They also know to appreciate others' good deeds, successes. They are honest - in saying and doing. They never waste time in gossiping with sophistication and negative thinking; They know how to use time properly. They are social; But people with positive thinking and promotion choices carry along with them. They also respect the positive suggestions of others and also try to rectify their mistakes; Even if no one else has given these suggestions, they do not mind making changes according to time and situation. The real meaning of their life is to work, progress and move in positive direction.

      They like to do it with efficiency and maturity. They first take full knowledge of the work; He closely examines every aspect and only after checking the result, he makes a positive effort to do it with full confidence. His eyes have a different kind of experience, patience and confidence in him, victorious on the face. Smiles. They are always friendly, generous, stay away from pride; No matter how big the success is, they always look at themselves and continue to strive forward. They have the understanding to struggle and cooperate in life. Humility is their identity. Mature people do not increase things, cool minds. Positive solutions come out with sympathy and honesty; Which is acceptable to everyone. It does not suit them to quarrel, anger or humiliate them. They treat others what they want for themselves. They always accept the reality. They accept their family and society. The duties of the person are well known and play their accountability towards them well.

     They do not appear childish in their behaviour, they are patient in facing problems. As far as possible establish a warm relationship with others, they have immense power to bear the disappointment, with positive thinking comes the problems. They have to face the problems of daily life with fearlessness, never get frustrated, they find solutions with confidence. They believe in reality and develop their personality accordingly. They recognize their abilities and beliefs and think in reality. Never pretend and never forget to run faster than your ability. They never depend on others, they do not copy others. They continue to make progress according to their ability and hold their work and progress. These never change their judgments by looking at others; Believe in yourself.

      They never consider themselves unlucky and helpless, they do not break in front of circumstances. They never do crowd gathering, they focus only on those who are of their use.

      They rectify deficiencies rather than fear, they sit down in despair. They keep only those with positive thoughts and if they are unhappy due to someone, then they keep distance from them. They seek their happiness and progress in themselves, never depend on others. They do every task and practice by understanding the situation. These are the hallmarks of self-reliance, self-respect.

      They set goals to do any task and focus full attention on the goal, they also succeed.

      These false assurances never do. They talk only after looking at the situation and circumstances. First listen to everyone and then keep their point. It is not their habit to give advice without asking.

      They refrain from cheating people, finding fault with others; Neither is interested in defaming anyone. They like to remain calm, it is not their habit to be angry with someone else. They seek their fault and failure in a failure and try to impose the cause on others; Only then Bale obeys and respects him.

     They know to accept the mistake. They never consider themselves complete and accomplished and by constant effort, they add more features and successes to the work; Which makes them quite special from others.










परिपक़्व व्यक्तित्व l Mature personality

  परिपक्वता ( Maturity )




     

  परिपक्वता एक विशेष शब्द है ,जो हमें व्यक्ति के जीवन के रहस्य को जानने में मदद करता है l किसी की परिपक्वता को हम उसके कार्य करने के तरीके और उसके व्यव्हार से जान सकते हैं l परिपक्वता में उम्र का कोई महत्व नहीं होता है , उसके सोचने - समझने की शक्ति , उसके कार्य करने के तरीके और व्यव्हार , हाव-भाव से हम उसकी परिपक्वता जान पाएंगे l कई बच्चे परिपक़्व होते हैं ; लेकिन कई वयस्क भी बचकाने व्यव्हार करते हुए देख सकते हैं l 

परिपक़्व व्यक्ति अपने आप में सभी तरह से पूर्ण होते हैं , उनमे जीवन की गहराई होती है l परिपक़्व व्यक्ति ने जीवन का सकारात्मक अनुभव लिया होता है , उनमें  सोचने - समझने की असीम शक्ति होती है l  वह अपने आस-पास के वातावरण और अपनी अच्छी-बुरी सभी परिस्थितियों  से भली प्रकार परिचित होता है और वह अपने को इन परिस्थितिओं  में ढालना जनता है ; परिस्थितियों  को अपने अनुकूल बनाना आता है l  परिपक़्व व्यक्ति आत्मवश्वासी और स्वाभिमानी होता है और अपने काम में असाधारण प्रतिभा का धनी होता है l परिपक़्व व्यक्ति आशावादी होते हैं और खुले विचारधारा रखते हैं , कभी निराश नहीं होते हैं ; चाहें परिस्थिति  कितनी भी बुरी क्यों न हो  l कई बार छोटी-छोटी असफलताओं में भी प्रयास करते हैं और अच्छे समय का इंतज़ार करते हैं l ये जिद्दी ( stubborn ) नहीं होते है , कार्य की परिस्थिति  को समझकर , कार्य में धैर्य के साथ बदलाव भी पसंद करते हैं l परिपक़्व व्यक्ति ईमानदार और दयालू भी होते हैं और कभी किसी की सफलता पर ईर्ष्या नहीं करते हैं , उल्टा उनकी सफलताओं पर उन्हें जहा तक संभव हो सहयोग देकर उन्हें बढ़ने में मदद करते हैं l इन्हें सहयोगी  को कृतज्ञता प्रकट करना आता है , ये कभी भी सफलता में घमंड नहीं करते हैं और इस सफलता में सभी को सामान रूप से आभार और ख़ुशी प्रकट करते हैं l  






हो सकता है एक परिपक़्व व्यक्ति हमें देखने में साधारण लगे ,लेकिन वे असाधारण होते हैं और आत्मविश्वास से भरे होते हैं l ये दयालू होते हैं और इन्हें दूसरों पर आक्षेप लगाना व् अपनी गलतियों और भूलों को दूसरों पर लगाना बिलकुल भी पसंद नहीं होता है l  ये अपनी भूलों और गलतिओं को सहर्ष स्वीकार करके उनको दूर करने का सकारात्मक प्रयास करते हैं ,ना की भूलों को दबाने का l दूसरों को क्षमा करना और सहयोग करना इन्हें अच्छे से आता है l ये दूसरों के अच्छे कार्य , सफलताओं पर सराहना करना भी जानते हैं l ईमानदार होते हैं - कहने और करने में l ये कभी भी कुतर्क में व नकारात्मक सोच रखने वालों के साथ गपशप में समय बर्बाद नहीं करते है ; इन्हें समय का सदुपयोग करना आता है l ये सामाजिक होते हैं ; लेकिन सकारात्मक सोच वालों और तरक्की पसंद लोगों को ही साथ लेकर चलते हैं l
ये दूसरों के सकारात्मक सुझावों का भी सम्मान करते हैं और अपनी ग़लतिओं को सुधारने का प्रयास भी करते हैं ; चाहे ये सुझाव किसी और ने ही क्यों ना दिया हो l ये समय और परिस्थिति के अनुसार बदलाव करने में बुरा नहीं मानते हैं l इनके जीवन का वास्तविक अर्थ काम , तरक्की और सकारात्मक दिशा में आगे बढ़ना होता है l  

       इन्हें कार्य कुशलता व परिपक्वता के साथ करना अच्छा लगता है l ये पहले कार्य की पूरी जानकारी लेते है ; उसकी हर पहलु से बारीकी से जाँच करते हैं और उसके परिणाम की जाँच करने के बाद ही उसे करने का सकारात्मक प्रयास पूरे आत्मविश्वास के साथ करते हैं l इनकी आँखों में एक अलग तरह की अनुभव ,धैर्य व आत्मविश्वास की चमक होती है ,चेहरे पर विजयी मुस्कान होती है l
ये हमेशा दोस्ताना , उदार व्यव्हार  करते हैं , घमंड से दूर रहते हैं ; चाहें सफलता कितनी भी बड़ी क्यों ना हो l ये सदा अपने को देखते हैं और आगे प्रयास जारी रखते हैं l जीवन में संघर्ष करने और सहयोग करने की समझ रखते हैं l विनम्रता इनकी पहचान होती है l परिपक़्व व्यक्ति बातों को बढ़ाते नहीं हैं , ठन्डे दिमाग से सहानुभूति और ईमानदारी के साथ सकारात्मक हल निकलते हैं ; जो सभी को स्वीकार्य होता है l फिजूल का झगड़ा करना , क्रोध करना या अपमानित करना इन्हें शोभा नहीं देता है l ये दूसरों से वही व्यव्हार करते हैं , जो वे अपने लिए चाहते हैं l हमेशा वास्तविकता को स्वीकार करते हैं l ये अपने परिवार और समाज के कर्त्तव्य भली प्रकार जानते हैं और उनके प्रति अपनी जवाबदेही अच्छे से निभाते भी हैं l

      ये अपने व्यव्हार में बचपना बिलकुल भी नहीं दिखते हैं , समस्याओं का सामना करने में धैर्य रखते हैं l
दूसरों के साथ जहां तक संभव हो मधुर सम्बन्ध ( warm relationship ) स्थापित करते हैं l
इनमे निराशा को सहने की असीम शक्ति होती है , सकारात्मक सोच के साथ समस्याओं से निकलना भी आता है l इन्हें दैनिक जीवन की समस्याओं से निडरता के साथ सामना करना आता है , कभी हतास नहीं होते हैं , आत्मविश्वास के साथ समाधान निकाल ही लेते हैं l ये यथार्थता में विश्वास करते हैं व उसी के अनुसार अपने व्यक्तित्व का विकास करते हैं l ये अपनी क्षमताओं और विश्वास को पहचानते हैं और वास्तविकता में सोचते हैं l कभी दिखावा नहीं करते हैं और कभी अपनी क्षमता से तेज भागने की भूल नहीं करते हैं l ये कभी भी दूसरों पर निर्भर नहीं होते हैं , दूसरों की नक़ल भी नहीं करते हैं l ये अपनी काम और तरक्की की पकड़ अपनी क्षमता के अनुसार धीरे - धीरे बनाते चले जाते हैं l ये कभी भी दूसरों को देखकर अपने निर्णय नहीं बदलते हैं ; खुद पर विश्वास करते हैं l

      ये कभी भी अपने को दुर्भाग्यशाली और मजबूर नहीं समझते हैं , परिस्थितियों के आगे टूटते नहीं हैं l ये कभी भीड़ इक्कठी नहीं करते हैं , जो उनके काम के हैं उन पर ही अपना ध्यान केंद्रित करते हैं l 

ये कमियों को सुधारते हैं ना कि डर कर , निरास होकर बैठ जाते हैं l ये सकारात्मक विचार वालों से ही रखते हैं और अगर किसी के कारण दुखी होते हैं तो उनसे दूरी बना लेते हैं l ये अपनी ख़ुशी , तरक्की अपने आप में खोजते हैं , दूसरों पर कभी निर्भर नहीं होते हैं l ये हर कार्य व व्यव्हार परिस्थिति को समझकर करते हैं l आत्मनिर्भरता , आत्मसम्मान इनकी पहचान होती है l 

ये कोई भी कार्य करने के लिए लक्ष्य निर्धारित करते हैं और लक्ष्य पर पूरा ध्यान लगन के साथ केंद्रित करते हैं , सफल भी होते हैं l 

ये ढूठे आश्वासन कभी नहीं करते हैं l ये माहुल व परिस्थिति देखकर ही बात करते हैं l पहले सबकी सुनते हैं फिर अपनी बात रखते हैं l बिना मांगे सलाह देना इनकी आदत नहीं होती है l 

ये लोगों की चुगली करना , दूसरों की गलती निकालने से बचते हैं ; ना ही किसी को बदनाम करने में रूचि रखते हैं l ये शांत रहना पसंद करते हैं , किसी और पर गुस्सा करना इनकी आदत नहीं होती है l ये किसी असफलता  में अपनी गलती और कमी खोजते हैं ना की दूसरों पर कारण थोपने की कोशिस करते हैं ;  तभी साथ बाले इनकी बात मानतेहैं  और इनका सम्मान भी करते हैं l 

इन्हें गलती स्वीकार करना आता है l ये कभी भी अपने को सम्पूर्ण व निपुण नहीं समझते हैं और निरंतर प्रयास द्वारा काम में और विशेषताएं और सफलताएं शामिल करते है ; जो इन्हें दूसरों से काफी विशेष बना देती हैं l

 


 




Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Mysterious Personality and its importency to atrect others & Grow Respect/ Success chances.

Mysterious Personality



        Individuals who are mostly quiet prefer to speak less; And those who know and understand completely are beyond our understanding, these are what we call mysterious people.

Their personality attracts us, we have a desire to know more about them and understand them; This quality makes them more attractive.

They spend more time on their own, they do not like to waste time and get into frivolous talks and debate. 

They understand the whole situation before speaking, then speak; Those who speak will speak right and speak less with confidence. 

It is impossible to read their minds, if they are talking to us, then something else is going on in their minds; At that time some must have been thinking positively; Which we cannot even imagine. 

He does not like to meet more people at all; They like to meet at work. They like to spend free time on their own.

      Mysterious people are very intelligent, experience and confidence in their talk, they are very proud. He likes to be respected and taken. 

They do not do any work for the sake of show, or they like such people who show any kind of ridicule in front of them. 

They are not interested in laughable - laughable and unconvincing laughter - fun. 

They think positively and form friendships and relationships with positive people, they do not like friendship much. Whose thoughts are negative and time barbarians never have any relation with them. 

Before taking any action, they fully understand it and then decide. Are fully devoted to their work. 

They make their plans well; It is difficult for us to know their plan - because they are secret and do it only when the time comes, they complete it with confidence. 

They live in reality. Their every decision and work will be completely unusual but will be full of experience, which will attract us. 

These same habits and behaviours may seem strange to us, due to which many times we forget to consider them as straightforward and gullible; But they are also very confident, self-respecting and fearless.

      They form close relationships with less people, do not open up emotionally with everyone, they do not easily awaken their feelings, they believe in trying to overcome their problems as far as possible. Others are not hungry for kindness or sympathy; They have the power to overcome problems and to move forward. 

They hate people who look like sympathizers. 

They believe in themselves, no matter how adverse the situation may be - they know how to make pain their strength. 

They are fearless, if someone makes mistake of thinking of them as weak then they also know to suppress it but never pretend. 

They are polite and not timid. 

They like to do what is right with their understanding, never caring about others "what others think about their decision". 

They never depend on others, remain aware of themselves.

He likes to spend time alone, introspect on his own and make plans. 

They are intellectual and know how to use time properly. 

They do not care about others and do not copy others. He speaks less and is quiet, always gives advice and full of experience. 

They never depend on anyone else and do not give any advice without asking, because they do not like to show off. These groups do not like to be formed, they like to be independent and take independent decisions. 

These are the things that make them different from others and also an attractive person because we will never fully understand them and our love and passion will never end and we can never get bored of them.

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